There’s a lot of healing that will come after 1 year of NC. Taking a vacation instead of thinking of your AP is a huge help. Before embarking on this trip, I really held onto the mindset that I wanted this trip filled with reconnection to not only my spouse but my children to. It’s been 12 blissful days filled with every conceivable adventure and paradise one could ever dream of….And you know what? In the end, my husband has trumped any momentary happiness CEO brought into my life. It’s a stark reminder that our spouses are capable of being what we once knew them to be: leaders, adventurers and exhilarating lovers. Yet life and responsibilities of work and home skews your perceptions after nearly two decades of marriage.
I feel very fortunate to be where I am. To experience the joy and love of my family at their best. I wish all betrayed and wandering spouses could find their way back to such nirvana.
Life…is pretty epic friends.
Get out there and live the life you dream of, instead of looking back at what you think you had or lost.
I promise…it’s worth it.